Things that make my eyes more asian / Things that make me -.- / I wonder if I'm a feminist

1. when a guy says "help me to take care of so-and-so (a girl)" Come on la, how freaking old is she already, can't she take care of herself. Saw this on insta just now.

Anyway, someone said that to me before, asking me to take care of my best friend. I had the most asian eyes I can ever have deep inside but for politeness sake I just said okay of course but my insides were like !?@#?$?!!!! do I need YOU to tell me to take care of MY friend??? I take bloody good care of my friend on my own who the heck are you to tell me that la. Okay if it's coming from a parent I can totally accept. But from a random guy who knew her for like less than a year but I freaking know my bestie for 14 years omg hi guy you siao ah.

2. when a guy need to carry a girl's bags and all. I see this all the time and I still don't get it.

你的手在哪里啊女人？